2009 is the year of the Ox.

What’s that mean for us guys working on penis enhancement this year?  The year of the ox is traditionally associated with…that’s right gentlemen…work.

In the week leading up to the new year I interacted personally with each of the men who regularly post on my forum about their penis enhancement resolutions for the year.  Did they have one?  What were they hoping to acheive?

As you’d expect the goals were as diverse as the names of the men.  But what did more men express wanting than anything else, almost universally?  Well penis growth of course.  More specifically length.  No matter what penis enhancement methods guys were engaged in, be it penis pills, the penis patch, penis exercise, the main objective conrtinues to be a longer reach…and while this came as no surprise to me, I found that with a little pressing there was a lot more to the wishes, and goals of these men for the coming year.

I found that on a more basic level what most men desired was a more confident relationship to sex.  We want to feel better about what we have to offer, and we want to enjoy sex more.  So, while it’s easy to equate a bigger penis with hotter sex and a happier partner the long slong is not in itself what we really want…is it guys?

What I found at the root of most men’s new year’s resolution was a desire to have a healthier sex life.  How did they hope to acheive it?  Universally the answer was clear to anyone who had been practicing a penis enhancement method for any length of time:  Be more dedicated to your penis enhancement; now that’s a resolution. This was in fact what was at the core of every resolution.  While exactly how big everyone wanted to get, and how long they hoped to last in sex, how much harder they hoped to get…every man I talked to made a vow to be more dedicated to the penis enhancement approach they were already practicing.  They had seen results, and made the equation between how hard they worked at it and how good the results were.

And this brings me to the point I raised at the beginning (what a segway huh?).  The point is work.  What you get out of penis enhancement is directly related to how much work you put into it.

The stretching devices, the penis pills, and patches are all designed to supplement you body’s natural growth and strengthening from working the muscles, working the blood, working the cells.

My Advice for the New Year

Work.  Don’t focus on getting longer only.  Diversify. Don’t rely on one method but practice a couple at once.  Each strengthens the effects of the next. Think of what you’re doing as improving your overall sexual health.  Take an active approach.  The day you stagnate, and stop the exercises in favor of just sticking on the stretcher or slapping on the patch is the day you lose your momentum.

In the year of the Ox the goal for every man should be better sex.  I recommend kegels everyday.  Kegels are far and away the best exercise for controlling semen flow and acheiving orgasm control and stronger orgasms.  And this is where the key to better sex lies. You have to have a good size gun to fill the holster but once inside you have to know it won’t misfire…and when it does fire it better blow her away.

This year as your resolution set a specific goal for your size gain, and a date to hit it by.  But don’t stop there.  Your penis enhancement goal in the year of the ox should be a healthier penis.  Harder, bigger and full of fire…and you’ll be a real work horse…I mean Ox.

Hi everyone,

I’ve only got a moment today but someone posted this on a forum I participate in today in a discussion about new year’s resolutions for 2009 and I wanted to share it.

“For me it’s not about getting big; it’s about no longer being small”.

It was in a discussion about how big people are hoping to get, and how big you should expect to get.  I thought it was a pretty important point.

Here it is gentlemen. The world of penis enhancement according to me. My credo, and for those of you who are familiar with my writings this will be no surprise, has been since the beginning: The three tiered approach is the be all and end all to achieving penis growth. Put all your eggs in one basket and you may grow, but diversify and you’ll not only see penis growth but better penis health, better sex, faster growth and better, more controlled orgasms.

What is the three tiered approach to penis enhancement?

• A daily penis patch or pill
• A regular penis exercise regime including jelquing and stretching
• A stretching device

I talk to, and advise tons of men who are engaged in penis enhancement on a regular basis. What I find myself repeating more than anything to newbies and veterans alike is things like, “what you’re only wearing the penis patch…no exercises…no stretcher?”

The approach people take more often than not is to start with a single method and wait and wait to see the results they’re looking for. For most men what they’re looking for is quick growth. I have two problems with this.

Problem 1

If you’re only looking for quick penis growth you are overlooking the number one factor in improving your sex life and sexual confidence: better orgasms. You may get bigger, but until you can control your sperm, and tell the little fellas who’s boss, you won’t be able to pleasure your partner the way you want to. And until you’ve experienced a harder erection, and a stronger, more intense semen flow and erection you surely can’t know how good sex can get. This is why I advocate focusing on overall penis health rather than just getting big.

Problem 2

Just popping a pill and hoping to see major gains right away is the lazy man’s approach, and won’t get you where you want to be. This is one of the myths that companies selling the pill or patch love to nurture. Though these products are in fact central to any good penis enhancement program they work best in combination with—guess what…hard work and exercise!

No single method can match the gains of a combined approach. The benefits of each are multiplied by the inclusion of the next.

Consider the major, and unique benefits of a good pill formula:

• cell growth
• increased oxygen to the penis, increased blood flow
• healthier semen
• higher sex drive
• orgasm control

Much of this you simply can’t achieve without the active herbs and supplements present in the pill or patch. If you’re only stretching you’re missing most of the action on the internal level. On the flipside however, if you’re only wearing a patch, taking in these vital supplements, but not stretching you’re doing the equivalent of eating a weightlifter’s diet without actually weightlifting!

What the diet does is provide the physical scenario for the exercise to have maximum effect. Take in the herbal formula and put it to work by jelquing, stretching and doing kegels. The combination is killer. What does it kill? Small penis syndrome. What does it achieve: penis growth and overall sexual health. Now that’s penis enhancement done right.

Jelquing Techniques

I wanted to share this stuff on jelquing that I found today on a great forum called Thunder’s Place.  It’s fantastic advanced advice that’s hard to find.  So enjoy, and thanks to the Thunder!

Grip

The grip can be applied in many ways. However it is applied, there are some important common factors.

Grip Factors

The standard OK grip can be applied in two ways, palms up (a standard OK) and palms down (an overhand OK). Though the grip is generally referred to as an OK grip there is no requirement for the forefinger and thumb to meet, what is important is that it traps blood effectively. To that end if it works to grip the end of the forefinger with the thumb or to use thumb and forefinger in a U shaped grip it is important to proceed with what works best. A U shaped (pinch grip) applied vertically will tend to work the corpora carvenosa (CC) most, encouraging girth gains.

If there is no intention to attempt bend correction the grip should be applied straight. If gentle work to help correct a bend is required then the grip can be applied diagonally with the leading edge of the grip on the inside of the bend. Do not expect dramatic correction, this is a gradual and limited process.

The effects of jelqing are a combination of stretching and internal pressure. If stretching and length are important application of a grip that less effectively traps blood but is stronger is sensible. This can be achieved with rotation of the grip at the point of application. Also if the first grip becomes a short stretch at the glans whilst the second grip is applied this is likely to have positive length effects.

Care should be taken to avoid damaging the dorsal nerve which runs along the top of the penis in the middle. There is a particularly sensitive nerve bundle in the top middle of the penis just below the glans and this should be avoided, either by terminating the stroke an inch before the glans or avoiding the area with a grip biased to sideways pressure. An overhand OK, locating the webbing between thumb and forefinger centrally is likely to be least likely to cause nerve damage and can fairly safely allow the stroke to be continued all the way to the glans.

To ensure that the entire penis is worked out thoroughly the grip should be varied during the course of a session. Mixing up overhand and standard OK grips and changing rotation of the grip at the point of application is a good habit to gain.

Its best to work up to full intensity. Even with a good warm wrap, a lot of spotting can be avoided by applying a low intensity grip initially and building it up during the first minute or so.

Angle and Position

An upward angle (penis pointing up toward the ceiling) will put most of the stretching gain into the tunica which is harder to stretch than the ligaments, so it can be used to try and minimize length gains (in combination with high level erections). An upward angle is associate with a standard OK grip. It is harder to grip close to the base using this angle.

A downward angle (penis pointing toward the floor) will place more strain on the ligaments. Its generally associated with an overhand OK grip and many people find it easier to both achieve a grip nearer the base and a greater pump effect from each stroke.

With a standard OK, stroking with the right hand whilst pulling the shaft to the left, and with the left hand pulling to the right, will apply stretch to the ligaments on one side at a time benefiting length. Pulling in the same direction as the hand in use with an overhand OK will have similar effects.

Some find that jelqing whilst standing increases the initial pressure of blood in the penis and thus the effectiveness. Similarly jelqing in a sitting position with the legs raised above the level of the penis should help. This will also encourage a slumped back which will allow easier access to the base of the penis and increase the downward angle when jelqing down.

Stroke

The speed of each stroke is extremely important. Stroke times of less than 3 seconds should be avoided. It is very easy to start at a good rate but increase to masturbation speeds if concentration is lost. Timing the stroke rate (either by counting ( one - one thousand, two - one thousand, three - one thousand) or with a watch or metronome is a good way to ensure that the speed is constant.

It is possible to increase the strength of the grip without encouraging a ramping of pressure during the stroke by lengthening the stroke time.

To encourage length gains many people end each stroke in a short light stretch (often unconsciously), very similar to a JAI stretch.

Today I wanted get right back to the core of the whole thing and discuss what penis enlargement is all about.  Why’s it so popular?  Why is it important for so many men?

A below average penis length can often trigger serious psychological problems in many men. That’s the facts.  The argument can go on and on as to whether or not the size of a penis physically matters but the fact remains that knowing one is small in relation to others can seriously affect a man’s confidence and self perception.

For this reason, penis enlargement methods have become seriously important to millions of men, and influential in the betterment of their lifestyles.  After sticking to a rigorous penis enhancement regiment for a period of roughly six months, most men experience:

• Increased confidence
• Increased sex drive
• Stronger orgasms
• Longer, more intense sex
• An improvement in social life and overall happiness

It’s simple. Rid yourself of a nagging impediment to your happiness, and quality of life, happiness and confidence go up.  And that’s really, beyond mere inches, what men stand to gain from penis enhancement.  While the old concept of penis enlargement goes that it’s just about adding length for vanity sake, we’re becoming more and more aware that overall penis health can be dramatically improved as well as sex drive and orgasm control.  And as a result men begin just plain old feeling better.

Penis curvature is extremely common as most of us know.  (Most of us just need to look down to see the proof).  Most would agree a little curve is no big deal, in fact it may just allow you to reach those hard to tingle places inside her…maybe…?  While this may or may not be the case (it obviously depends on your partner) there are more serious cases of penis curvature that can be down right troublesome, and in some cases painful and dangerous.

Peyronies disease is an all too common and actually quite serious problem for many men.  It involves a progressive curvature of the penis to the point where sex can become both difficult and painful.  With increassed awareness about the disease these days, many penis enhancement programs both pills, and stretchers have been adapted to adress serious curvature.   What’s more, many exercise programs are laid out in such a way so as to simultaneously encourage penis growth and straigtening of the penis.

This is good for Peyronies sufferers but also for those of us, and those among our partners, who find our curve none too pretty.  A recent study into Jelquing has proven it to be effective in completely correcting penis curvature for 93% of men who jelqued for 5 months or more.  Not bad!

If you’re looking to correct your curve doctors suggest both jelquing and penis exercises such as a prolonged stretch along the leg opposite to the direction of your curve, as well as straight out.

While this should be your primary mode of attack you can also take penis enhancement pills (or the patch) to strengthen you penis which will greatly increase the effect of the stretches.  Stronger muscles, stronger blood flow, healthier veins and skin will help to accomplish a good, straight, and strong lightening rod.  And that’s the goal, isn’t it?

In talking to people about the penis patch I often get the reaction “What…what’s that all about?”  New to the game of penis enhancement, and still much less widely known about then the penis pill, the patch tends still to be surrounded in an air of mystery.  The first and most important thing to know about the patch is that in most cases it differs from the penis pill only slightly.  The only difference is the method of ingestion.

You basically have a choice, strap on a patch in the morning, or pop a pill.  Either way you’ll be taking in a steady stream of essential vitamins and herbal supplements to support your penis enhancement routine.  The key things that a patch or pill can do for you are:

• encourage cell growth
• trigger your hormones to develop
• increase blood flow to the penis

Some of the essential ingredients of the penis patch that achieve these aims are Gingko, Dodder seed, L-Arginine, and Yin Yang Huo.  These are herbs that have been widely used for centuries to oxygenate the blood, allowing it to flow more quickly and steadily.  The patch is specially designed to focus the results on the penis organ and has no side effects.

Along with these herbs, good penis patches include some common essential vitamins that you would associate with body building more generally.  Protein and Iron are commonly found in the latest patches to help with the process of muscle development and tissue growth.

So, What is the Difference Then?

As I say, the ingredients, and clinically tested results are often too similar to differentiate.  Choice of which one to use tends to come down to preference of the user.  But, it is very important to note that some users find dramatic differences in their body’s reaction to either one.  Some people find that they react very little to the penis pill but react tremendously to the patch.  Every body is different.  What I do recommend is to try a trial of each, and as I always say, you may need to try a few different brands before you come upon the solution for you.

Erectile dysfunction or a general difficulty getting, and staying aroused is one of the most common reasons why men seek penis enhancement products.  Besides simply getting a bigger penis a grand number of men wanted to get better, healthier, stronger.  Penis size and penis health go hand in hand.

Often the problem starts on a mental level, wherein, a psychological block prevents a man from relaxing enough to let his natural processes take him over.

Just as often though, ED, is a result of simple physical problems, whereby the normal flow of blood, and the penis’s ability to retain it is compromised.   Physical problems range in cause from the side effects of certain drugs (beta blockers, antidepressants), atherosclerosis (blockage of the artery to the penis), diabetes, nerve damage (e.g. in multiple sclerosis or spinal cord injuries) but also due to low testosterone and poor diet.

It is generally estimated that one in ten men suffer from erectile dysfunction. Though its difficult to tell considering that its also estimated that only 10 % of men who suffer from it actually seek out help for it. You can’t help but pity the man who doesn’t seek help to boost his sexual performance out of shyness or a lack of knowledge of what’s out there.

On the whole though men everywhere are more and more willing to discuss these issues in public, and advancements in the field of penis enhancement are making it considerably easier to solve erection problems.

With the popularity of Viagra, a mainstream remedy, that really had it’s origins in enchancement pills like VigRX and Vimax, one’s ability to track down a remedy has grown quite a bit easier. The public is now more than ever inclined to openly discuss the issue. A penis pill with high quality ingredients, and mixed in the correct formulation will immediately begin to correct erection problems by causing the chambers within the penis to expand and by allowing stronger blood flow.

Consumption of Arginine, one of the most common ingredients in penis enlargement pills causes a reaction in the body that produces nitric oxide. (NO) is responsible for controlling the physiological circumstances that generate and maintain an erection such as increasing blood supply to the penis and restricting the blood flow from it.

Viagra works by blocking the production of an enzyme that allows blood to drain from the genitals but a more natural approach is to take herbs and nutrients that help maintain normal, healthy NO levels. You heard it here first folks.  As always I suggest the natural solution to cure what ails you.

Penis size, and what constitutes the right, ideal penis size, no matter how you look at it, is relative to many other factors.

Well, how big are you?  How tall are you?  Are you sleeping with a tiny, petite partner or someone who needs a big powerhouse to get off?  Obviously you want to be bigger, but I think an important thing to note is that a good size for each man is still going to be different, depending on your circumstances.

Every man has to come to a point in their enlargement where they say, hey, this is big enough.  So exactly how much penis growth is enough? A half inch, an inch, two inches, 3 inches? I argue that while the pressure to reach some specific size is going to be present for everyone, the best result and how much is enough for every guy will be different.

Not everyone is going to reach 7 or 8 inches.

Why is it important to recognize this?  Because unrealistic goals for penis size only lead to disapointment.  Know your limits and know what’s realistic for you and you’ll be far better off.

One of the gross underestimations that goes on is exactly how much effort it takes to see good, consistent growth.

So ask yourself, do you have the time to really put into penis enlargement?  How much?  How long can you sustain a rigorous exercise regime for?

These are important questions to ask because they will help you mentally prepare for what’s ahead, and to reach your goal with as little hitches along the way as possible.

Gentlemen…speak up.

I’m a professional in this industry, an expert on penis size and all things to do with enhancement of the male member and sex life. I work as an advisor and writer for a penis enhancement information website (here). I also operate a forum and blog on which I publish advice, the results of studies, opinion pieces and product reviews. It’s a complex job, with a lot of responsibilities. To do it well, which I feel I do, I have to be pretty much more informed than anyone about what’s out there to increase your penis size, what works, what’s just crap and what’s dangerous.

I speak to people everyday who are going through a PE program right now—people who are seeing success, people who aren’t so much, and people who are just starting out. Coming from this perspective I’ve got to say the single thing that makes my job the most difficult is men’s hesitation to pipe up and speak about their own experience.

The other day I was contacted via my forum by a man who was interested in the penis enlargement patch and asked why we didn’t have more people talking on the site about whether or not the products we discuss were working for them.

It is a forum after all, why weren’t more men speaking about what methods they had tried and whether or not they’d seen success with them?

The man said he was a beginner who thought he could login and hear some advice from veterans. I replied to the message immediately because it’s something that’s been on my mind constantly since I started as moderator on the site. What I said was this: Unfortunately the large percentage of men on the forum were in situations similar to his own, they were new, and hoped to hear what others had to say but didn’t necessarily have much to say themselves.

People want to hear what others who’ve been through it have to say, people who have been through it no longer have the same need and so post far less frequently. This has to change.

I post daily on the forum with advice, with my own personal experiences and with recommendations of products that I know work, saying try this penis pill or this stretcher or the other, but I’m the administrator! People can only hear it from me so much before they begin to doubt my intentions.

(I’m just a soul whose intentions are good…oh lord please don’t let me be misunderstood….)

I posted this man’s message on the forum as well (http://forum.penisenlargementinc.net/) along with a call to action and have since seen wonderful results. It seems all I needed to do was demonstrate the importance to the more senior members that they share their wisdom to see them do it. The thing is even if you’ve been at it a while you have plenty to learn from others who’ve taken a different approach. The more you talk, the more others do…and so on.

So herein lies the point of this brief article. Consider it a call to action to all you men out there who have seen success or failure in trying to increase their penis size with penis enhancement product. Get on the forums get on the blogs and tell others your story. A more free flow of communication, and only that, will get this penis size enhancement community rolling.