Gentlemen…speak up.

I’m a professional in this industry, an expert on penis size and all things to do with enhancement of the male member and sex life. I work as an advisor and writer for a penis enhancement information website (here). I also operate a forum and blog on which I publish advice, the results of studies, opinion pieces and product reviews. It’s a complex job, with a lot of responsibilities. To do it well, which I feel I do, I have to be pretty much more informed than anyone about what’s out there to increase your penis size, what works, what’s just crap and what’s dangerous.

I speak to people everyday who are going through a PE program right now—people who are seeing success, people who aren’t so much, and people who are just starting out. Coming from this perspective I’ve got to say the single thing that makes my job the most difficult is men’s hesitation to pipe up and speak about their own experience.

The other day I was contacted via my forum by a man who was interested in the penis enlargement patch and asked why we didn’t have more people talking on the site about whether or not the products we discuss were working for them.

It is a forum after all, why weren’t more men speaking about what methods they had tried and whether or not they’d seen success with them?

The man said he was a beginner who thought he could login and hear some advice from veterans. I replied to the message immediately because it’s something that’s been on my mind constantly since I started as moderator on the site. What I said was this: Unfortunately the large percentage of men on the forum were in situations similar to his own, they were new, and hoped to hear what others had to say but didn’t necessarily have much to say themselves.

People want to hear what others who’ve been through it have to say, people who have been through it no longer have the same need and so post far less frequently. This has to change.

I post daily on the forum with advice, with my own personal experiences and with recommendations of products that I know work, saying try this penis pill or this stretcher or the other, but I’m the administrator! People can only hear it from me so much before they begin to doubt my intentions.

(I’m just a soul whose intentions are good…oh lord please don’t let me be misunderstood….)

I posted this man’s message on the forum as well (http://forum.penisenlargementinc.net/) along with a call to action and have since seen wonderful results. It seems all I needed to do was demonstrate the importance to the more senior members that they share their wisdom to see them do it. The thing is even if you’ve been at it a while you have plenty to learn from others who’ve taken a different approach. The more you talk, the more others do…and so on.

So herein lies the point of this brief article. Consider it a call to action to all you men out there who have seen success or failure in trying to increase their penis size with penis enhancement product. Get on the forums get on the blogs and tell others your story. A more free flow of communication, and only that, will get this penis size enhancement community rolling.

I just wanted to add some more general thoughts on Jelqing after posting the first technique. I would also reinforce the fact that I can’t recommend this enough as a legitimate method of penis enhancement, not just for increasing penis size but for improving sex drive and orgasm control.

First of all, at least 6 months of dedicated effort should be applied in order to see significant penis enhancement results. Jelqing works, but it works because of a consistent, regular day to day approach. Believe me the work is worth it though: you will see an increase in penis size.

Have reasonable aims. You’re not going to get a 12 inch penis from jelqing so keep your aim reasonable and you’ll find it that much easier to stay positive and aim for it.

Also, learn correctly from the beginning. Doing these exercises incorrectly over extended periods of time can not only lead to frustration from lack of results but can also produce undesirable results.

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• Bring it up when you’re both relaxed and comfortable with each other. After sex when you’re close and calm is a great time.

• Do your research first. Many people are shocked upon hearing about penis enhancement at first simply because they don’t know much about it. They’ve heard only the heresy and not the facts. Read a little and you’ll find out just how effective some penis enlargement methods are and will be able to explain.

• Remember that you’re increasing your penis size because of how much happier and more confident it will make you feel, and communicate that. An understanding partner will be proud and happy for you.

• Remember that many thousands of men worldwide are currently successfully increasing penis size too. You’re not alone! If you are having difficulty discussing penis enhancement with your partner immerse yourself in the online support community of blogs and forums and you’ll find a great web of support.

It should go without saying that its crucial that you discuss penis enhancement with your partner before going through with it. It’s a big process, heavily involved and though it is remarkably discreet for the outside world, it is very, very difficult to hide from your bed partner.

Discussing it from the outset, in my opinion, is essential so that you can get the support and understanding you need to about your penis exercise regime with dedication and confidence.

That said it is often the case that men want to surprise their partner with their decision to go about penis enhancemet. After all its as much, or more, for them as it is for you. The trouble is your results will quickly become obvious. As you go through your penis exercise regime your thicker, longer penis and higher sex drive will surely get noticed. And that’s a good thing, remember. It’s far more positive to share your decision and your efforts with your partner from the beginning.

Hiding your penis enhancement methods from your partner out of shyness is definitely a sign of trouble. It is certainly a difficult subject to breach, but often it’s the most difficult subjects that are the most important to discuss. Your partner needs to know that your decision to improve your body involves her or him.

Trust in your partner and know that the positive changes you are making by dedicating yourself to a penis exercise regime will be accepted and welcomed by them.

Remember that if you inform yourself about penis enlargement methods that work than you’re dealing with a safe and natural way to improve your body. Your partner will understand, trust me…

When it comes to penis enhancement there is one golden rule you should never forget. It applies to both your health and safety and to the effectiveness of your penis enlargement methods. So, don’t underestimate it!

Use only all natural penis enlargement methods.

• Surgeries and chemical concoctions are dangerous, costly and worst of all, rarely work.

I’m of the opinion that we put enough unnatural substances in our body inadvertently just on the basis of what we eat and breath in city air. There’s no sense in ingesting more crap for the sake of increasing penis size. Especially when the natural penis enlargement methods are the most effective.

• Natural penis enlargement methods such as herbal pills, dermal patches, exercises, jelquing, and penis stretchers are proven safe, effective and affordable.

People have been stretching body parts for millennia using natural methods. Not just the penis, but legs, feet, necks, earlobes as well as breasts have been traditionally enhanced using natural techniques.